Important concepts on how to pick up women
Here are a few important concepts to learn and practice when learning how to pick up women
Clarification -
To make an idea, thought, or concept clear; an interpretation that removes obstacles to understanding
Expressiveness-
Effectively conveying thought or feeling
Honesty-
Free of deceit and untruthfulness; sincere
Simplicity-
The quality or condition of being easy to understand or do
Agreement-
Harmony in opinion or feeling
In future posts I will clarify more on why these are important, because I know for some people it will be hard to understand why exactly this list of words will help you a lot when it comes to picking up women. For now, just think about these concepts and why they might help you, and practice them in every day life. Practice being more honest with yourself and other people, practice clarifying any confusing situations you are faced with, practice simplifying everything about your life, and practice being more expressive with your thoughts and feelings.
Monday, August 12, 2013
Sunday, August 11, 2013
Keeping It Simple: Why Flirting is The Easiest Way to Pick Up Women
Keeping it simple: Why flirting is the easiest way to pick up women
Have you ever wondered why some guys get with girls, while you're stuck in the friend zone? Have you ever found yourself confused at what gets girls to like you, and wondering how you can do it? The answer is simple, and anything you read that tells you otherwise is wrong.
The honest reason why some guys get with lots of girls, and other guys get stuck in the friend zone comes down to one thing, flirting. This is the simplest way I can put it. A lot of seduction methods teach you routines, that involve cold reads, framing, role playing, etc... but the simplest way to put it is that flirting is what separates the guys who get girls from the guys who don't. Flirting makes it clear that you are into the girl, and gives the girl the option of flirting back or not.
Here are some of my past blog posts that you should definitely read about flirting and clarifying;
http://gettinglaidsimplified.blogspot.com/2013/08/why-assholes-are-ones-with-girlfriends.html
http://gettinglaidsimplified.blogspot.com/2013/08/the-biggest-in-flirting-with-women.html
http://gettinglaidsimplified.blogspot.com/2013/08/what-will-actually-get-you-girlfriend.html
http://gettinglaidsimplified.blogspot.com/2013/07/the-basics-of-flirting.html
Read those, and hopefully you get a better idea of what flirting does and why should do it.
If you think of getting with girls as a numbers game, then the guys who consistently go out and show SEXUAL INTEREST in women are going to be the ones who get laid the most. The guys who go out and end up have boring conversations with girls are going to be the ones who consistently get put in the friend zone. Of course neither will be 100% all of the time, but statistically the guys who simply just go out and flirt with girls get laid much more.
Flirting is a basic skill that you just HAVE to learn, you have to. Its what gets you results. Its what clarifies the interaction early on as sexual, and simplifies everything for both people. That is very important. The fact that flirting makes the decisions for BOTH people simple, meaning that hooking up will be easier.
Now you might be wondering.. "How do I flirt with girls?" Well this comes down to simply showing interest in them. Of course there is a happy medium, and you will develop a sense for that over time. Things like teasing them and making fun of them, and then complimenting them, physically teasing them, pushing them, being playful, etc. There are literally tons of examples for flirting, but the underlying theme here is just that you are showing interest in them. The important thing is to have the idea of flirting present in your mind at all times.
Have you ever wondered why some guys get with girls, while you're stuck in the friend zone? Have you ever found yourself confused at what gets girls to like you, and wondering how you can do it? The answer is simple, and anything you read that tells you otherwise is wrong.
The honest reason why some guys get with lots of girls, and other guys get stuck in the friend zone comes down to one thing, flirting. This is the simplest way I can put it. A lot of seduction methods teach you routines, that involve cold reads, framing, role playing, etc... but the simplest way to put it is that flirting is what separates the guys who get girls from the guys who don't. Flirting makes it clear that you are into the girl, and gives the girl the option of flirting back or not.
Here are some of my past blog posts that you should definitely read about flirting and clarifying;
http://gettinglaidsimplified.blogspot.com/2013/08/why-assholes-are-ones-with-girlfriends.html
http://gettinglaidsimplified.blogspot.com/2013/08/the-biggest-in-flirting-with-women.html
http://gettinglaidsimplified.blogspot.com/2013/08/what-will-actually-get-you-girlfriend.html
http://gettinglaidsimplified.blogspot.com/2013/07/the-basics-of-flirting.html
Read those, and hopefully you get a better idea of what flirting does and why should do it.
If you think of getting with girls as a numbers game, then the guys who consistently go out and show SEXUAL INTEREST in women are going to be the ones who get laid the most. The guys who go out and end up have boring conversations with girls are going to be the ones who consistently get put in the friend zone. Of course neither will be 100% all of the time, but statistically the guys who simply just go out and flirt with girls get laid much more.
Flirting is a basic skill that you just HAVE to learn, you have to. Its what gets you results. Its what clarifies the interaction early on as sexual, and simplifies everything for both people. That is very important. The fact that flirting makes the decisions for BOTH people simple, meaning that hooking up will be easier.
Now you might be wondering.. "How do I flirt with girls?" Well this comes down to simply showing interest in them. Of course there is a happy medium, and you will develop a sense for that over time. Things like teasing them and making fun of them, and then complimenting them, physically teasing them, pushing them, being playful, etc. There are literally tons of examples for flirting, but the underlying theme here is just that you are showing interest in them. The important thing is to have the idea of flirting present in your mind at all times.
Saturday, August 10, 2013
The Biggest Test For Attraction in Women
The biggest test for attraction in women
A lot of people talk about the idea of "tests" and how you can tell when a girl is attracted to you. There are dozens of different "tests" and routines people run to see if a girl is attracted to them. There are whole e-books written on tests and the different types of tests there are. To me, this is pointless. It over complicates everything, and you know I like to keep things simple. My main test for attraction is based around a large concept that takes time to learn, but it is the true best test. The idea of "reciprocation." What I mean when I say reciprocation is does she laugh at your jokes, is she interested in what you have to say, does she tease you when you tease her, and does she flirt back when you flirt with her. Does she reciprocate the interest you are showing in her.
On the other hand, the biggest test for her NOT being attracted to you is the idea of apathy. Is she just straight up not interested in what you have to say, when you tease her does she just sit there straight faced and not do anything back, and so on. I know these things might seem obvious, but there is a big misunderstanding with the idea of attraction and attraction tests.
A lot of people think that there are specific things you can say or do that will flip a magical switch in her head that will instantly get her attracted to you. Nope. Not how it works. The concepts of reciprocation and apathy have simplified everything about attraction for me and helped me get much better results in a shorter period of time. They are two things that you need to go out and look for, have both those ideas present in your mind at all times, and you will start to notice them more. Eventually you will develop an intuition for them and get better at them. Then, instead of thinking about certain "tests" you can run, which generally don't work and give you mixed signals, you can just continue the natural interaction and look for reciprocation and apathy. It keeps things simple, and natural. You won't have to feel weird ever again by doing stupid tests that only socially awkward "PUAs" do.
So remember those two concepts and go out and practice them. Keep it simple, until next time.
A lot of people talk about the idea of "tests" and how you can tell when a girl is attracted to you. There are dozens of different "tests" and routines people run to see if a girl is attracted to them. There are whole e-books written on tests and the different types of tests there are. To me, this is pointless. It over complicates everything, and you know I like to keep things simple. My main test for attraction is based around a large concept that takes time to learn, but it is the true best test. The idea of "reciprocation." What I mean when I say reciprocation is does she laugh at your jokes, is she interested in what you have to say, does she tease you when you tease her, and does she flirt back when you flirt with her. Does she reciprocate the interest you are showing in her.
On the other hand, the biggest test for her NOT being attracted to you is the idea of apathy. Is she just straight up not interested in what you have to say, when you tease her does she just sit there straight faced and not do anything back, and so on. I know these things might seem obvious, but there is a big misunderstanding with the idea of attraction and attraction tests.
A lot of people think that there are specific things you can say or do that will flip a magical switch in her head that will instantly get her attracted to you. Nope. Not how it works. The concepts of reciprocation and apathy have simplified everything about attraction for me and helped me get much better results in a shorter period of time. They are two things that you need to go out and look for, have both those ideas present in your mind at all times, and you will start to notice them more. Eventually you will develop an intuition for them and get better at them. Then, instead of thinking about certain "tests" you can run, which generally don't work and give you mixed signals, you can just continue the natural interaction and look for reciprocation and apathy. It keeps things simple, and natural. You won't have to feel weird ever again by doing stupid tests that only socially awkward "PUAs" do.
So remember those two concepts and go out and practice them. Keep it simple, until next time.
Friday, August 9, 2013
Get Involved! Help Other People Get Laid
Get involved! Help other people get laid
I try my best to supply all of you with original, informative, and innovative content. Originality and innovation can only go so far though, so that's why I am asking YOU to get involved. Drop a comment, tell me what you want me to blog about next, share your thoughts, even share my blog. If you think my information is stupid and wrong, tell me why! If you think it is genius, also tell me why! I want to spread this to as many people as possible to help everyone get better results with women.
So if you're reading this, please, GET INVOLVED!
I try my best to supply all of you with original, informative, and innovative content. Originality and innovation can only go so far though, so that's why I am asking YOU to get involved. Drop a comment, tell me what you want me to blog about next, share your thoughts, even share my blog. If you think my information is stupid and wrong, tell me why! If you think it is genius, also tell me why! I want to spread this to as many people as possible to help everyone get better results with women.
So if you're reading this, please, GET INVOLVED!
Thursday, August 8, 2013
Use The Magnification Principle to Get Laid
Use the magnification principle to get laid
There is an old saying that goes like this..
"Energy flows where attention goes"
This is the main concept of the magnification principle (credit to CaptainJack.) The theory behind the magnification principle is to ignore anything that doesn't help you, and magnify everything that does. If you give attention to negative things in life, or anything that will not help you achieve your goals, you are just giving it energy and making it bigger in your mind than what it needs to be. This is why it is important to "magnify" your successes and everything that WILL help you achieve your goals because then you will be giving energy to things that will benefit you. This goes much much deeper than picking up women and getting laid. Obviously you can apply this principle to women, and I have, but this is something that will help you in any area of life.
So when seemingly negative things happen to you, its best to ignore them and focus on more positive and beneficial things in life. This will help you live a more productive and happy life.
Keep it simple, until next time.
There is an old saying that goes like this..
"Energy flows where attention goes"
This is the main concept of the magnification principle (credit to CaptainJack.) The theory behind the magnification principle is to ignore anything that doesn't help you, and magnify everything that does. If you give attention to negative things in life, or anything that will not help you achieve your goals, you are just giving it energy and making it bigger in your mind than what it needs to be. This is why it is important to "magnify" your successes and everything that WILL help you achieve your goals because then you will be giving energy to things that will benefit you. This goes much much deeper than picking up women and getting laid. Obviously you can apply this principle to women, and I have, but this is something that will help you in any area of life.
So when seemingly negative things happen to you, its best to ignore them and focus on more positive and beneficial things in life. This will help you live a more productive and happy life.
Keep it simple, until next time.
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
The Fundamentals of Getting Good With Girls
The fundamentals of getting good with girls
There seems to be a BIG misunderstanding when it comes to game and picking up women. People seem to think that you can be fat and have zero social skills, but somehow use special techniques that will get any girl to like you. This is complete bullshit. That is not how game works. Its true that there are certain tactics and techniques used to game women, but generally these techniques are based of psychology and sociology studies. In fact recently I have been straying away from techniques and focusing more on mindsets, and mental concepts. Although techniques do work, they are not nearly as big of a deal as programs such as "Mystery Method" claim they are.
Before you learn anything about game, there are a few things you should have taken care of.
1.) Looks and groom-ness
Before you try anything, you need a makeover. Most people who get into this are either overweight, or have terrible style. Start wearing nicer clothes, get a good haircut, get rid of your acne, and get a tan. Your looks and style can and will instantly improve your results.
2.) Social skills and extroversion
Most people who get into "game" start out very socially awkward. Then, they try to go out and use weird, socially unacceptable pickup lines and get horribly rejected by women. Without basic social skills and an extroverted personality your execution of what you are doing with be off and you wont get the correct results. At first, you should only be worried about becoming more social, friendly, and funny.
3.) Getting rid of past negative experiences
This is a BIG one. Most people have a lifetime of being rejected and having bad experiences with women when they first start out. These negative experiences haunt them and hinder their results, they stop them from making any improvements. From now on, any time you start to think of a bad past experience I want you to ignore it, and change your mind and think of any recent time where you were very happy or confident. This is possibly one the most helpful things I or anyone will ever tell a beginner.
Remember, these things are important to take care BEFORE you try learning routines and techniques. If every person focused on these three things when they first started they would improve much, much faster and make more consistent improvements. Keep it simple, until next time.
There seems to be a BIG misunderstanding when it comes to game and picking up women. People seem to think that you can be fat and have zero social skills, but somehow use special techniques that will get any girl to like you. This is complete bullshit. That is not how game works. Its true that there are certain tactics and techniques used to game women, but generally these techniques are based of psychology and sociology studies. In fact recently I have been straying away from techniques and focusing more on mindsets, and mental concepts. Although techniques do work, they are not nearly as big of a deal as programs such as "Mystery Method" claim they are.
Before you learn anything about game, there are a few things you should have taken care of.
1.) Looks and groom-ness
Before you try anything, you need a makeover. Most people who get into this are either overweight, or have terrible style. Start wearing nicer clothes, get a good haircut, get rid of your acne, and get a tan. Your looks and style can and will instantly improve your results.
2.) Social skills and extroversion
Most people who get into "game" start out very socially awkward. Then, they try to go out and use weird, socially unacceptable pickup lines and get horribly rejected by women. Without basic social skills and an extroverted personality your execution of what you are doing with be off and you wont get the correct results. At first, you should only be worried about becoming more social, friendly, and funny.
3.) Getting rid of past negative experiences
This is a BIG one. Most people have a lifetime of being rejected and having bad experiences with women when they first start out. These negative experiences haunt them and hinder their results, they stop them from making any improvements. From now on, any time you start to think of a bad past experience I want you to ignore it, and change your mind and think of any recent time where you were very happy or confident. This is possibly one the most helpful things I or anyone will ever tell a beginner.
Remember, these things are important to take care BEFORE you try learning routines and techniques. If every person focused on these three things when they first started they would improve much, much faster and make more consistent improvements. Keep it simple, until next time.
Tuesday, August 6, 2013
Mental Skills That Will Help You Get Better With Women
Mental skills that will help you get better with women
The last few weeks I have been toying around with some concepts that I believe will skyrocket your results with women. Practicing and understanding these concepts will help you get better results and give you more confidence. I'm going to give you a list of concepts that I have found to be beneficial to your "game." I'm not going to go into detail on each concept, that's up to you, but I will give you a list of them. Take some time to look at each one and start understanding them, and practicing them. As always, don't take in too much information at a time, just baby step everything. It will take time. So here goes...
Divergent thinking/ creativity
Problem solving
Reasoning
Abstract thought
Pattern recognition
Emotional intelligence
Extroversion
IQ (intelligence quotient)
That is just a list a few concepts I have found to be beneficial. If you study those, you will start to see the world differently. But knowledge and understanding isn't everything, it needs to be combined with a capacity for action, or else all your knowledge will go to waste. So go out, and practice, and study up. Take action, and keep it simple. Until next time...
The last few weeks I have been toying around with some concepts that I believe will skyrocket your results with women. Practicing and understanding these concepts will help you get better results and give you more confidence. I'm going to give you a list of concepts that I have found to be beneficial to your "game." I'm not going to go into detail on each concept, that's up to you, but I will give you a list of them. Take some time to look at each one and start understanding them, and practicing them. As always, don't take in too much information at a time, just baby step everything. It will take time. So here goes...
Divergent thinking/ creativity
Problem solving
Reasoning
Abstract thought
Pattern recognition
Emotional intelligence
Extroversion
IQ (intelligence quotient)
That is just a list a few concepts I have found to be beneficial. If you study those, you will start to see the world differently. But knowledge and understanding isn't everything, it needs to be combined with a capacity for action, or else all your knowledge will go to waste. So go out, and practice, and study up. Take action, and keep it simple. Until next time...
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