Saturday, August 10, 2013

The Biggest Test For Attraction in Women

The biggest test for attraction in women

     A lot of people talk about the idea of "tests" and how you can tell when a girl is attracted to you. There are dozens of different "tests" and routines people run to see if a girl is attracted to them. There are whole e-books written on tests and the different types of tests there are. To me, this is pointless. It over complicates everything, and you know I like to keep things simple. My main test for attraction is based around a large concept that takes time to learn, but it is the true best test. The idea of "reciprocation." What I mean when I say reciprocation is does she laugh at your jokes, is she interested in what you have to say, does she tease you when you tease her, and does she flirt back when you flirt with her. Does she reciprocate the interest you are showing in her.

     On the other hand, the biggest test for her NOT being attracted to you is the idea of apathy. Is she just straight up not interested in what you have to say, when you tease her does she just sit there straight faced and not do anything back, and so on. I know these things might seem obvious, but there is a big misunderstanding with the idea of attraction and attraction tests.

     A lot of people think that there are specific things you can say or do that will flip a magical switch in her head that will instantly get her attracted to you. Nope. Not how it works. The concepts of reciprocation and apathy have simplified everything about attraction for me and helped me get much better results in a shorter period of time. They are two things that you need to go out and look for, have both those ideas present in your mind at all times, and you will start to notice them more. Eventually you will develop an intuition for them and get better at them. Then, instead of thinking about certain "tests" you can run, which generally don't work and give you mixed signals, you can just continue the natural interaction and look for reciprocation and apathy. It keeps things simple, and natural. You won't have to feel weird ever again by doing stupid tests that only socially awkward "PUAs" do.

     So remember those two concepts and go out and practice them. Keep it simple, until next time.

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