Whats wrong with current PUA seduction methods
For any of you that are familiar with popular seduction methods and programs, then you have most likely found yourself spending a lot of your time studying "tactics and techniques" and ultimately spending a lot of your time confused and filling your mind with bad information.
What current seduction methods do is essentially teach you their basic structure, for instance the "M3" model, then they fill your mind with what you are supposed to do in each phase of the structure, while simultaneously teaching "correct" body language, mindsets, and beliefs. The reason why this is wrong is because 1.) they teach you everything out of order, most guys who get into "game" are socially awkward and have a lifetime of bad experiences with women that ultimately have a big effect on their current "game." To put it simply, if you were to effectively remove all false information from your mind, remove all past negative experiences from your memory, and then teach your self a basic structure and solid beliefs, you would be ahead of pretty much all guys currently... and 2.) They teach you too much too fast. Simplicity is key to effectively learning anything new in life. Simplicity is also key to steady improvement and developing a good skill set and a good understanding. A wise man once said that complexity stems from a lack of understanding... so when you see seduction strategies and structures that are extremely, even remotely complicated, there is a good chance they have no understanding of what they are actually doing ;)
Ideally, a good method would, at first, not teach you anything new at all. That's right, at first, they literally would be teaching you NOTHING about picking up women. They would spend their time removing all the false information in your mind that is holding you back from truly learning the important stuff, and they would work on getting rid of, or minimizing, the past negative experiences in your life that are holding you back and keeping you in the past. Negativity, false information and bad beliefs are killer when it comes to learning something new, that goes for anything in life. If you have a lifetime of false information built up in your mind, how do you expect to effectively learn new things without having conflicting ideas and thoughts that hinder your results? Conflicting beliefs and thoughts basically stop you from moving forward, because you cant move forward with conflicting information in your mind, you must first get rid of the false stuff.
This might be a lot to take in at one time, but I hope you can think about this and start to see the truth in it. I'm going to try my hardest not to confuse anyone in my posts, so I will stop it here, but hope to clarify everything more in the future.
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