The Fundamentals of Getting Good With Girls

The fundamentals of getting good with girls

     There seems to be a BIG misunderstanding when it comes to game and picking up women. People seem to think that you can be fat and have zero social skills, but somehow use special techniques that will get any girl to like you. This is complete bullshit. That is not how game works. Its true that there are certain tactics and techniques used to game women, but generally these techniques are based of psychology and sociology studies. In fact recently I have been straying away from techniques and focusing more on mindsets, and mental concepts. Although techniques do work, they are not nearly as big of a deal as programs such as "Mystery Method" claim they are.
     Before you learn anything about game, there are a few things you should have taken care of.

     1.) Looks and groom-ness
               Before you try anything, you need a makeover. Most people who get into this are either overweight, or have terrible style. Start wearing nicer clothes, get a good haircut, get rid of your acne, and get a tan. Your looks and style can and will instantly improve your results.
     2.) Social skills and extroversion
               Most people who get into "game" start out very socially awkward. Then, they try to go out and use weird, socially unacceptable pickup lines and get horribly rejected by women. Without basic social skills and an extroverted personality your execution of what you are doing with be off and you wont get the correct results. At first, you should only be worried about becoming more social, friendly, and funny.
     3.) Getting rid of past negative experiences
               This is a BIG one. Most people have a lifetime of being rejected and having bad experiences with women when they first start out. These negative experiences haunt them and hinder their results, they stop them from making any improvements. From now on, any time you start to think of a bad past experience I want you to ignore it, and change your mind and think of any recent time where you were very happy or confident. This is possibly one the most helpful things I or anyone will ever tell a beginner.

     Remember, these things are important to take care BEFORE you try learning routines and techniques. If every person focused on these three things when they first started they would improve much, much faster and make more consistent improvements. Keep it simple, until next time.