The Basics of Flirting

The Basics of Flirting

     The basics of social interactions that are geared towards sex revolve around the concept of flirting. Flirting is by far one of the most useful and applicable concepts in the game. Flirting is how you NEVER ENTER the friendzone. The reason why flirting works is NOT because of certain specific words or phrases you use that trigger attraction or emotional reactions, although many seduction methods will tell you this. The reason why flirting works above anything thing else is because of the overall concept of what you're doing when you flirt.. when you flirt with someone, you are showing interest in them, and you are clarifying the interaction as sexual. Two of the biggest things you NEED in a successful interaction are clarification and agreement. Without those two you will have no clue where you stand in the interaction.
     Flirting is based off of the idea of reciprocation which basically means returning something. When you flirt with someone, you will either get reciprocation, which is what you want, or you will get apathy, which is not what you want. When some reciprocates flirting they are basically returning interest in you and clarifying that they are interested in you too. That's why flirting is such a basic but necessary skill to understand.
     Here is a simplified version of how flirting works..

1.) You show interest in girl. (teasing, touching, complimenting, etc.)
2.) She either reciprocates by flirting back, and you now have a clarified interaction that you are both interested in each other, which is what you want. Or she responds with apathy, which in that case she is clarifying that she is not interested.
3.) Now that you have a clarified interaction you are free to start making bigger moves and focus on other things.

     I know you probably want to know HOW to flirt, but flirting is a personal skill and style that you develop over time. If you are truly not sure how to flirt, I know there are thousands of articles and videos out there that can give you examples. In reality, its not as important to learn the specific techniques as it is to go out with the intention of flirting with girls, look for reciprocation, and learn from your experiences. That way you develop and intuition for the whole thing. So your drill for the next few days is to just have the intention of flirting present in your mind, and to look for girls reciprocating flirting. Keep it simple, thanks for reading.

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