Use Positive Thinking to Get Laid

Use Positive Thinking to Get Laid

     When it comes to attracting beautiful women, a lot of it has to do with your beliefs and way of thinking. You can go out and "run game" but if you are a naturally negative person that will show, but it goes much, much deeper than that. A lot deeper.
     There are basic techniques and applicable concepts in game such as flirting, escalation, framing, etc... but one the most powerful and simple mental concepts is the idea of positivity. I'm going to try to keep this post as simple as possible, because there are a lot of different routes I could take when trying to explain this concept, so here I go. I cannot stress how important it is to not only naturally be in a positive state of mind, but have the ability to re-frame negative thoughts and turn them positive, and remove all negative beliefs, thoughts, and past experiences from your mind.
     Positivity is a health indicator, so when people see you, a happy and positive man, they are naturally going to like you more, simple. This doesn't mean they will magically be attracted to you, of course sometimes it might, but it means that everyone will naturally like you more, which is very good.
   
          "But what if my life sucks and I never get with girls so I'm always sad?" ... you might ask.

     First off, you literally need to change all of your thoughts to positive. This is a very powerful concept and will take time at first. Negative thoughts and past negative experiences are possibly the biggest thing in life that will stop you from getting what you want, in ANY area of life, not just women. Past negative experiences can and will dictate your current beliefs of what you can and cannot do and dictate your choices, decisions and actions. Negative thinking is the best way to NOT get laid. Everyone has had fucked up shit that has happened to them in the past and you need to let go of it. First off, you need to remove any negative thoughts and beliefs from your mind.
       
          The idea that you have to be "cooler" than a girl for her to like you? negative belief.
          The idea that you have to raise your value and lower hers before she can like you? negative belief.
          The idea that you have to use specific routines to manipulate a girl into liking you? negative belief.
          The idea that you need to be super good looking, a 10 out of 10, to get with women? negative belief
   
     The list goes on, and I hope you see my point. Any ideas or beliefs that you have previously had in your head that don't benefit you and lead you toward your goals you need to remove from your mind. Look for any real world references or examples where your negative beliefs can be dis-proven. For example, lets look the popular belief that you have to be a male super-model look a like to get with women. Tell yourself this isn't true, now go out and look for specific examples of girls with fat or ugly men. You will start to notice it more and then you will truly believe that looks don't matter, which is a belief that will actually help you to get closer to your goals. I want you to think about any ideas or beliefs you currently hold about yourself, women, and picking up women. I want you think about everything, and ask yourself whether believing this will help you reach your goals, or push you further away from them.
     As far as re-framing negative thoughts, this a skill I picked up on my own that helps you live a more positive happy life, which at the core is truly what we want from all of this, and it helps you attract more women in your life.
     Right now, I want you to focus on a specific object, put all of your attention on it and focus on it completely for a few seconds. Now can tell me what you were thinking? Well, I already know, and it was nothing. The reason is because when you put your undivided attention on something your thoughts go neutral, at least for a little while. Now, anytime in the future you think something negative, for example you start to stress about work or school, I want you to focus your attention on something, and then immediately think about a happy moment in your life. It can even be the HAPPIEST moment in your life, anything that changes your thoughts from negative to positive. You will find that this will get easier over time, and you naturally become a more positive and happy person.
     This a brief overview of the concept of positivity and applying it towards picking up women. Practice these drills I have given you because they make a HUGE difference. Keep it simple, and thanks for reading.