Simplified Way of Picking Up Women

Simplified Way of Picking Up Women

     As I talked about in my last post, simplicity is key to everything in life. I gave you a very simple structure to follow when picking up women and talked about the concept of simplicity. When it comes to learning a new skill, you should not focus on small details but large applicable concepts. This is the opposite of what most seduction methods do. Most seduction methods teach you a ton of small techniques that are practically useless when used alone and not combined with solid beliefs and other factors. This confuses you and actually stops you from getting the results you want.
     A simplified way of what I do, and what everyone else does when they pick up a girl (whether they realize it or not) goes something like this.

1.) You show interest in them by flirting, and you either receive reciprocation (good) or apathy (bad). This clarifies the interaction as sexual.

2.) You look for opposition, or resistance.

3.) You both, in one way, shape or form, whether you realize it or not, express your goals for the interaction. (sex, relationship, just friends)

4.) If you have clarification and the agreement on your goals then you either structure a closing opportunity for sex, or move on from there and go anywhere you want in the relationship.

     Essentially, it is just flirting, seeing if they flirt back, making your intentions clear, and leaving it up to them to agree or disagree. I know it sounds basic, but this is actually how it works. Of course their IS a certain way to do this, and certain things you need to have mentally in line to be able to execute this successfully, but luckily anyone can learn. I will go into greater detail in later posts... but for now, just meditate on this idea I just gave you. This concept of how picking up women actually works. Think about times in your past when you have gotten with a girl and relate it to this structure. You will find that all of your successful interactions have basically followed this structure in some way.
     So keep it simple, and don't overload your mind with useless information. Those are drills for the next few days.