The Biggest Factor in Flirting With Women

The biggest factor in flirting with women

     Have you ever been in a social situation and you are talking to a girl, but you are not sure if she is interested in you? Don't worry, we've all been there, and I'm going to tell you how to never have that problem again. Please, don't look for that quick fix, there aren't any. There is no secret formula that will get every girl attracted to you, and let you know when they are. Many methods out there are very complex, and people buy into it because unknowing people assume that complex methods of how to pick up women work because they think complexity = understanding.
     Its actually quite the opposite, complexity stems from a LACK of understanding. The answer to finding out if a girl is into you is very simple, but it is a skill that you need to practice to get better at. I know that may be something you don't want to hear, that you actually have to practice getting better with women, but its the truth. So here goes..
     The biggest factor when it comes to knowing if a girl is interested in you initially comes down to two things...
          1.) Showing interest by flirting
          2.) and looking for reciprocation
     What does this mean? It means that if you want to know if a girl is interested in you, then you first show interest in her by flirting, and then you look for reciprocation such as her flirting back. Its very simple, but its something that you have to PRACTICE. You will get better at flirting and judging their reactions over time.
     Why? If you don't flirt with a girl then she never will know if your interested in her, and naturally, girls are NOT going to be the ones to make the first move, so you have to flirt with them first. Secondly, you have to be able to read their reactions to judge if they are interested in you also. You do this by simply looking for reciprocation. When you tease them, do they tease back? Do they play along with your jokes, with your playfulness? Reciprocation is the best test for attraction. The opposite of reciprocation in this case is apathy, which would be them not giving you a reaction at all.
     Stay tuned in my next few posts where I will go over exactly HOW to flirt, with examples. Until then, your drill is go out with the intention of flirting, and look to see if girls reciprocate. Keep it simple, until next time.