Keeping It Simple: Why Flirting is The Easiest Way to Pick Up Women

Keeping it simple: Why flirting is the easiest way to pick up women

     Have you ever wondered why some guys get with girls, while you're stuck in the friend zone? Have you ever found yourself confused at what gets girls to like you, and wondering how you can do it? The answer is simple, and anything you read that tells you otherwise is wrong.
     The honest reason why some guys get with lots of girls, and other guys get stuck in the friend zone comes down to one thing, flirting. This is the simplest way I can put it. A lot of seduction methods teach you routines, that involve cold reads, framing, role playing, etc... but the simplest way to put it is that flirting is what separates the guys who get girls from the guys who don't. Flirting makes it clear that you are into the girl, and gives the girl the option of flirting back or not.

Here are some of my past blog posts that you should definitely read about flirting and clarifying;

http://gettinglaidsimplified.blogspot.com/2013/08/why-assholes-are-ones-with-girlfriends.html
http://gettinglaidsimplified.blogspot.com/2013/08/the-biggest-in-flirting-with-women.html
http://gettinglaidsimplified.blogspot.com/2013/08/what-will-actually-get-you-girlfriend.html
http://gettinglaidsimplified.blogspot.com/2013/07/the-basics-of-flirting.html

Read those, and hopefully you get a better idea of what flirting does and why should do it.

     If you think of getting with girls as a numbers game, then the guys who consistently go out and show SEXUAL INTEREST in women are going to be the ones who get laid the most. The guys who go out and end up have boring conversations with girls are going to be the ones who consistently get put in the friend zone. Of course neither will be 100% all of the time, but statistically the guys who simply just go out and flirt with girls get laid much more.
     Flirting is a basic skill that you just HAVE to learn, you have to. Its what gets you results. Its what clarifies the interaction early on as sexual, and simplifies everything for both people. That is very important. The fact that flirting makes the decisions for BOTH people simple, meaning that hooking up will be easier.
     Now you might be wondering.. "How do I flirt with girls?" Well this comes down to simply showing interest in them. Of course there is a happy medium, and you will develop a sense for that over time. Things like teasing them and making fun of them, and then complimenting them, physically teasing them, pushing them, being playful, etc. There are literally tons of examples for flirting, but the underlying theme here is just that you are showing interest in them. The important thing is to have the idea of flirting present in your mind at all times.