What Will Actually Get You a Girlfriend

What will actually get you a girlfriend

     Has this ever happened to you? You know of a cute girl but you don't think shes into you, so you never make a move on her, and then weeks later you find out from her friend that the girl used to have a crush on you? I know its happened to me, a lot, and I used to think about how it would have been different if she just would have told me she liked me back then, because if she would have, I would have liked her back. You need to realize the same thing I did, girls are not going to be the ones to make moves, you need to step up make them, and I'm going to tell you HOW and WHY.
   
     A lot of people have ideas about what actually gets you a girlfriend and what does not. Most of these ideas are very complex and have many different concepts stemming off from them. A common example is the idea that you need to be an asshole to get women, which is absolutely not true. There is actually a reason why a lot of assholes tend to get more girls (and I'll get to that later), but that doesn't mean that nice guys don't have that same quality. Most people have tons of complex ideas running around in there mind about how to get girls, when in reality they are confused and they have no as to what actually works and what doesn't... and if by chance they get a girl, they don't know what they did and they don't know how to repeat it. Well I'm going to tell you what ACTUALLY gets the girls, or rather the concept of it. Of course there are certain ways to execute this concept, but understanding the bigger picture is the first step to making progress, so here goes.

          Clarification

     You might be confused at what you just read. If you have read any previous game material then what they tell that gets the girls is something completely different and much more complicated. But they are WRONG. 
     Let me give you a breakdown as to why clarification is one the most important concepts in game.

Clarification- In any successful interaction there is clarity. Think back to anytime you have gotten a girl in the past and you will recognize this. I have personally gone back and thought about every single time I have picked up a girl and this was the underlying them here. Clarification. What I'm talking about here is when BOTH of you understand that you like each other and you want something out of each other. Without clarification the interaction will fade away and you will have no clue what to do. The definition of clarification is.... "an interpretation that removes obstacles to understanding." So when I say clarification I am talking about doing things such as flirting and making sexual comments. The reason these things work is not because they set of emotional reactions, or because they trick women into thinking your the alpha male or any bullshit like that, they work because they clarify. Back to what I said earlier, its up to you to clarify. This doesn't mean you see a hot a girl and then you confess your love to her.. yes that technically is clarifying, but prepared for her to clarify things in her own way too, by not wanting to talk to you again. What this does mean is that when you hear people telling you to "play hard to get" to get girls they are completely 100% wrong. "Playing hard to get" does the opposite of clarifying things, it makes things ambiguous. Instead you should do things such as flirt and tease girls. What flirting does is it shows direct interest, it makes things clear that you are interested in her, and it leaves it up to her to reciprocate interest or not. Either way, you made things clear and simple, so it will either be a yes or a no, and you will never have to worry about if she actually likes you or not, or worry about what could have been. Flirting and clarification is a skill you will get better at, so go out and practice, that is your drill for the next few days.